Tuesday, 21 January 2014

Does she feel the same?

Hi Hello says:
So im a girl and my other friend is also a girl. I confessed to her that I liked her, and said she doesn't have the same feelings for me but we still hang out and talk like we normally do. So we went over a friends house and I kept on getting close to her like touching her face and her nose and cheeks and stuff and playing with her hands for like 20 mins she didnt even mind.. like she didnt even tell me to stop... then like I stuck my finger close to her mouth then i was joking around and pissing her off and she opened her mouth and bit my finger and I was like omg ur teeth are so sharp and she let my finger go then bit it again but she didnt let go right away like for a least 6 seconds-10 seconds she had my finger in her mouth and she bit it again and said my finger tastes weird or something like that... i just dont get it cause wouldnt she feel at least weirded out if i did that?i kept touching her for 20 min am I making this more than what it is?

She may well be confused about both her own sexuality and how she feels about you. It may also be that she doesn't want to lose you as a friend. She has already given you an answer but you are reluctant to believe that no means no. There is nothing in her behaviour that says otherwise. If you really want it spelled out where she stands, ask if you can kiss her. If she says no I would strongly recommend letting it go. I would also go where other lesbians are, firstly online and then in person. You will then spend less time wondering if the next girl is gay. Eventually you will learn "Gaydar" and pick up on body language and style whether the person is open to dating.

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