Betty says:
So I've been engaged to my fiance for about 7 months now and known him
for 2 years. We have a lot of mutual friends. We have a couple that
we're friends with that are from my fiance's best friend's side. They
are about our age (we're all in mid 20s)They've been together since high
school and married for over a year and a half now. We all hang out in a
group, its fun. The girl and me have become pretty close and I like her
company. We even went on vacations together. We'd text here and there
to catch up or to invite one anoter places to hang out all together. The
thing is I noticed this girl has been texting my fiance now instead of
me. When her and her husband are supposed to come over, or were meeting
them somewhere, she calls Him and not me. I'm not the type of girl to
get jealous over little things, but that got me thinking. Is that weird?
I can't recall anything happening between us two, she's always nice.
Even my fiance thinks its weird. They knew each other before me, but
really?
You're not imagining it - clearly this girl is attracted to your
fiancee. It is tempting in these situations to believe you're
overreacting and there's nothing to worry about. My wife in your
situation would be decisive - she would drop this couple like a stone!
You do not need to confront them - only your fiancee. If he loves you he
will respect your feelings. Simply stop inviting them or accepting
invitations. If they confront you, you can either be honest about how
you feel or be evasive - that's up to you. But I have no doubt that if
you just let it ride things will end badly.
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