Anonymous says:
I told this girl i liked her too soon back in October and she said this:
I've been thinking about it but I really just don't want to lead you on
in any sort of way and after all that's happened I feel like ill end up
disappointing you in some way. I'm sorry, maybe after awhile we can pick
it back as friends. I just don't want to mess with your feelings or
anything like that. I thought I would give you some time because I
figured it wouldnt be easy to go from wanting to be serious to just
friends. That's how I would feel in a situation like this if it was
flipped. I know it's kind of blowing out of proportion to be honest. I
would understand if we were already really good friends, but we barely
know eachother. I mean yes I don't know what else we would be.
I waited for a little while to talk to her after this so it will ease the awkward tension
so i talked to her mid december and things are good you can say from a
friends stand point. she likes almost all my post and stuff, and convos
are good.And for the first time she asked me if i wasn't busy and wanted
to do something. This will be our third time hanging out
she said this:
" we'll if you're ever bored and want to explore the city or hike let me
know! I need to make most of my time here I really want to find a cool
hiking spot. I do have something at 4 but we can do a morning afternoon
thing! "
So we went on a hike yesterday for 3 hours and it went good but it was
quick cause we both had work at a certain hour, and after she asked to
hang next weekend and i accepted. later i texted her saying it was fun
hanging with her and she said
"ahh i did too! Next time hopefully we won't be so rushed!
I'm not over thinking that she wants something but i just wanted to know if is this a sign of interest or just being friendly?
She has made her position very clear. I really wouldn't waste to much
time hoping it will end up more than what it already is. If you're
looking for romance, look elsewhere. I subscribe to the view that guys
and girls are rarely close friends because the male hormones get in the
way, unless one of you is gay.
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