Matt says:
Idk I'm just plain terrible when it comes to girls. She calls me Matty
instead of Matt which is kind of weird because no one calls me that. I
mentioned that to her and she stays that she calls everyone named Matt
that, it's supposed to be in a satirical way or something (but I have no
idea if that is true). Then I was walking down the hall in front of her
and she said to her friend "he must like me, that's why he's walking so
fast" I turned around and "yep, that must be it" and she ended with "It
definitely is". Our experience is very limited, we sit next to each
other in class and that's it. We just started the semester and she
didn't say a single word the first week. Then one day she was just
talking to me like we were best friends. I'm not sure if she likes me
and is flirting, or if I'm overreacting and that's just her personality.
I'm hesitant to act not because I'm afraid of being turned down but
rather because I'm afraid that I have this all wrong and it's not what
she's trying to do. Im not used to girl's flirting with me and this is
definitely different behavior than I am used to, so that's why I believe
she is flirting. But like I said it could just be her personality. So
what do you believe it is? Thanks everyone, just trying to get as many
opinions on the matter as I can!
The first question you have to ask yourself is whether you want to date
this girl. Just because someone likes you or flirts with you doesn't
mean you have to respond to it. You simply might not want to! If you
don't, there isn't a problem. You can just enjoy the attention!
If/when you do want to date someone, then risk and courage is involved.
All relationships are a risk business, even when you're dating - it can
all end horribly! You need to have the courage to take the risk in the
first place, and if you get burned, to move on and try again.
There aren't many of us who get lucky first time - we get rejected,
burned and even heartbroken, but if that happens, you also learn.
Welcome to relationships!
If you want to date this girl, just ask her out! If she says no, the
rejection might hurt but you will no where you stand and you can move
on. Like exercise, no pain, no gain! But never let fear of being hurt
stop you taking chances. You can't be safe AND happy. Feel the fear and
do it anyway!
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