Tuesday 18 February 2014

Should I ban him from speaking to another girl?

Jane 17:
I always find that men and women have different opinions on this question, do you think its wrong to tell your boyfriend not to speak to a girl because you get jealous about it?

This depends partly on the circumstances. It is natural to be jealous and possessive, but that will destroy your relationship if you don't control it. Guys like to see their girls jealous - it boosts their ego. However you will need to get across that you want him to make OTHER girls jealous by affirming you in public. I would also consider a "trust pact". You will trust him absolutely unless or until it's proven he was unfaithful, then he's out, no second chance. Trust is essential to any relationship, but make clear you don't give it lightly and it can't be fixed once broken. 

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