The Unknown says:
I met this lady friend of mine last year after she basically dragged me
to her student flat to show me off to her friends and say how gorgeous i
was. I get called tat a lot (not being vain). Anyways a few weeks later
she gave me her house number and said 'call me if u feel like calling'.
This was last year though. She is a 10/10 blonde who every guy in my
uni thinks is a beauty. And a very flirty outgoing girl. During the
summer last year we'd text on and off, soemtimes i'd initiate sometimes
she would. It wasn't like everyday or anythin. Sometimes as a friend
she'd say things like 'i hate everyone' or 'i hate everyone how are
you?' Another time she once texted me saying 'my friend is takig ages to
arrive to this trai station, entertain me xx'. We were friends
Tpwards the end of last year when i was starting uni again she messaged
me on facebook saying 'looking forward to sleeping with girls in
freshers week are we ;)'. And eventually when she asked about my love
life and told her about theres a girl that keeps chasing me who i dont
like she told me to go for her and that shes pretty. I thought she was
acting weird here. We at somepoint had a minor fallout. Even though we
made up we didnt talk for 2 months. However when i saw her last month on
a night out she gave me a soft smile and kinda parred as opposed to
the tight hugs shed normally give me. When i saw her at the bar she
started kissing me and said i was a good kisser. Then she walked off
completely. Another night when i saw her again a soft smile and kinda
ignored me.
But then last week when i saw her out and she ignored me i went home
early out of boredom. I woke up to 2 texts from her asking where i was.
During the night 2 days ago she text me and asked if i was awake and
said that i could come see her at a bar if i wanted to. I couldnt be
bothered i asked her to bring her and her lady friends to my flat to
chill with my boys. She was so drunkk kept punching me playfully. Before
she left she gave me a kiss on the lips and cheek. She then texted me
saying ' have a fun night with your friends xx'.
I got a tweet from her the next day saying 'thanks for hosting me last
night, duno how you put of with me all the time x'. Is she playing games
? I think she is!
If a serious relationship was going to develop, it would have done by
now. You are two people who basically like each other but not so much
that you have fallen head over heels in love. She is just a natural
flirt - which is fine, we all do it! If you're looking for a serious
relationship, this isn't the place to look, and you need to avoid her if
she's messing with your head.
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