Tron says:
I'm curious if I am just being a total asshole or not.
I've been dating this girl for 4 months and really enjoy spending time
with her and she has a great personality, BUT after having spent more
and more time with her, is it normal that I find her kind of irritating,
because she tries WAY too hard to CONSTANTLY be cute and like quirky
around me?
For example, she almost always talks to me in a high-pitched really cute voice and says stuff like
" BAAAABBBEEE" and over-pronounces it kind of like a kid. And she'll
just do random stuff like do dorky/cute dances in front of me in her
underwear while I'm watching TV, which yea is attractive the first time
but when you know someone's doing it for your attention you're kind of
like... meh. And then like, when she does cute stuff and I try to ignore
it I can see her in the corner of my eye like staring at me really hard
to see my reaction to whatever cute thing she just did.
Most guys don't like girls being too affectionate all the time - it's
kinda oppressive. Your next move comes from asking yourself this
question honestly: how would I feel if she dumped me right now? If the
answer is relief you're with the wrong girl - dump her now. You will
break her heart but you will both be better off in the long run. If you
would miss her terribly then you need to either accept it or tell her to
cool it - explain what you want her to do. Whatever you do, you will
need the courage to do the right thing.
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