Dude says
Ok, so this may seem a little complicated, but I really like this girl
and want to ask her out. We do not know each other too well. Essentially
she is my good friend's sister, but he really wants me to go out with
her as he sees me as an upstanding guy. So he totally approves. I just
do not know how to even go about asking her out? I don't even have her
number. We must about 2-3 years ago and one could tell we both liked
each other a little, but I am just a wimp when it comes to girls. How
can I go about this? Please, please help!?
Thank you so much!! :)
You're right - you are making this complicated and it isn't. What you're
really looking for is a way to get with her free of risk, awkwardness
and embarrassment. Let me save you some time and head-scratching - THERE
IS NO SUCH WAY.
Feel the fear of failure, feel the awkwardness, embarrassment AND ASK
HER OUT ANYWAY. Since you have access to her brother, finding out her
contact details will be no hard task. Your line is simple - "Forgive me
for being so bold, but I think you are lovely and I'd be most honoured
if you would go on a date with me."
All of life is about taking risks. Sometimes those risks pay off, more
often they don't and you burn. But every time you burn, you learn. So
keep failing, keep burning, keep taking risks because THAT'S how people
get successful. Burning feels better than cowardice any day. Stop
procrastinating and go to it. And good luck!
btw Girls like guys who've got a little courage.
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