Mansi says
I have been trying to tell him something really important, but every
single time I am up to tell him that, something goes wrong. It is
actually something about what happened to me. It's something sad. So
every time I think of telling him, I am afraid if he would ask a
question like "why are you telling me this?" or "what can I do?" or
maybe just maybe he thinks that I'm trying to seek his attention. I just
over think these thoughts and drop the idea of telling it to him.
Just recently I sought my brother's advice, and the two of us planed
that he would tell it on behalf of me. But all went wrong! My brother told
only half the story and even the main thing! My boyfriend
got angry! He thought that I could have said it for myself. I have been
trying to tell him from a long time. but it just doesn't happen. Why
should every single time must be the "wrong time"?
Now i am having some suicidal tendencies.. please help.
We have been together for 2 years.
The simple answer is that you're scared to say it and you're hoping some
imaginary perfect time will magically appear where you won't be scared.
There is NEVER a good time to share something painful. What you require
is COURAGE - you must share it even though you're scared.
If you want your relationship with this man to last, there has to be no
secrets between you. And if he does not want to listen or cannot love
you as you are and accept that you have a past, he is the wrong man for
you anyway. The next time you are together tell him EVERYTHING and
insist that he listens. You have delayed far too long already.
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