Emily says:
I know I know, she is a grown women and can make her OWN decisions & because she is MARRIED - but I can still be scared.
My mum has this online relationship with a guy younger then her. He is a
beachy/surfy chill guy who "lives his life" with no rules appearently.
I recently found out they have seen each other and spent a whole WEEK
together. We went to a place to help me with my depression, but the
whole week she spent cheating on my dad!! And it's not private there are
pictures everywhere on the internet of them to!
She says she just wants to 'run away' and to go to Italy and do surfing
and live someone else and it's sounding like she really just wants to
leave :( I'm scared I don't want my mum to leave but then again I do
want her to be happy. What can I do to calm these thoughts :( I can't
just get away from it! She is always texting him more then talking to
our family. I am so worried :(
I'm very sorry that you are in this position - if only mum loved Dad,
dad loved mum and they both loved you. Unfortunately not all of us are
in that situation. The bottom line seems to be that she cares for you,
but if it comes down to it, she's going to put her own happiness first.
There is nothing you can do about it. Worrying won't make an ounce of
difference to her choice - it will only make you more ill. At this
point, all you can do is live one day at a time, and face up to the
challenges of that particular day. Accept the fact that the future is
completely uncertain and beyond your control.
What will certainly help is for you to think about your own future and
what you want to achieve with your own life. Your current life is sadly
crumbling underneath you and you need to start building a future one
now. Good luck.
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