Felicity says
Here is the story:
this girl is in love with this man but the man is in love with another woman who does not love him back!
So I am that girl and this guy after some months of chatting online told
me that he does not want to delude me and I have to stop being in love
with him because he is in love with another woman even though the woman
does not love him and he told me that we are in the same situation, both
heart broken.
So I asked him to delete me from his friend list so I could forget about
him more easily. This happened some days ago. but now I am thinking
that he said no just because he did not want to take advantage of me and
because he is a gentleman, but if the other girl does not love him, why
would not he want to be with me? is it possible that he will get back
to me someday? Or am I just deluding myself?
However good you might be for someone, you cannot make them love you. It
takes two, and there's clearly only one on board here. Love doesn't
obey tidy rules about who is good for who. If you persisted and if he
got lonely enough, you might wear him down and he might go with you, but
you would then be his comfort girl, not a true lover. It would only end
badly.
I know what it's like when you have an overwhelming crush on someone -
you will have them at any price, and hold on in desperate hope it will
all work out. Nothing is certain but the odds are you're in for
heartbreak.
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