Laura says:
My significant other dumped me about 2 wks and treated me terribly. He
badmouthed me at work and to neighbors and did everything he could to
make me jealous. Also said he no longer wanted anything else to do with
with me and how happy he was without me Also refused to watch our 3 yr
old because he claimed I was using him to make us get back together.
Basically he did this all on a whim which left me without adequate time
to get childcare so I had to miss work.
Well I found out that while
separated he has been giving his female coworkers rides to work and also
ended up giving some girl 500 dollars. I found this out because he is
now trying to reconcile saying that he will NOW work with me on the
childcare issue etc. The thing that burns me up is that he took some
other girl to work and refused to watch our son, so therefore I had to
take the day off.
Clearly not all men are the same but generally speaking why would a man
do something like this? He is now trying to save face and begging me not
tell anyone how this woman tricked him out of 500 dollars. I told him
that he is deceptive and cannot be trusted. Although I have not been
perfect I have NEVER used him for money.
Also why the change of heart now?
Update : I know that we are separated and NOT together therefore he has
not obligation to me, BUT why treat me like CRAP and then turn around
and now try to help me.
You're not imagining it - you HAVE been treated badly, and like a lot of
men do he's trying to make out that it's all your fault - it isn't! To
use an innocent child as a weapon is particularly unforgivable. I would
not trust this man for a moment - he probably doesn't want the grief of a
messy breakup, but he should of thought about that before.
You deserve better. I'm afraid that if you give in to the temptation to
let this man back into your life you will only be sorry and delay the
inevitable.
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