Does thinking someone else during sex mean cheating?

Gold Finger says
I love her but sometimes i can't keep myself from thinking about someone else while sexing with her. Is this normal?
 
Any man who claims never to have done this is a liar! Plenty of women do this too btw. It doesn't really matter if the relationship is warm and loving and the sex mutually satisfying. But don't ruin things by telling her straight afterwards!

How can I make my parents realize?

Jen says:
I'm struggling - i am me and yet not fully myself because my parents always said I should be this, that, whatever! I'mm sick of it because its not me! I'm trying to convince them that I might be this or that, but they are always all "no, no, no, bad idea"! I don't want what they want me to be! I want to be who I wanna be - I feel like I'm a prisoner! I've always felt like this since I was a little girl.
Now I'm starting to open myself more. I'm in my second year in college and coming home twice a year. Please help! 

Speaking as one who is estranged from his parents I know how you feel. Your not imagining it, your parents ARE being unreasonable. They should love you and support you from who you are and who you want to be. Unfortunately you cannot make your parents realize, you can only go on doing your thing and hope that one day your parents accept it. And if they never do, you still did the right thing. You must always be true to yourself. 

Sexual dreams about my uncle

Whovian1 says:
Please help no one answered this question before when I posted it here!
He's not even really related to me, only by marriage to my aunt...who he has actually divorced recently. I haven't seen him in a year come February. I keep having these recurring dreams were I go to live with him in his apartment( that always changes because he only got it like a month ago and I haven't seen it yet...and unfortunately probably won't) and we sort of fall in love and have this kinky sex. He's 20 years my senior and I should definitely not be having these thoughts/dreams. I don't know what to do... I feel disgusted with myself but I just can't stop... 

Are these genuine dreams or is it also a sexual fantasy when you're awake? In either case, don't be too hard on yourself. We all have some kind of inappropriate thought, dream or fantasy. Thoughts and dreams aren't "you", they are things that happen TO you as experiences inside your head. You cannot control what enters your mind.

What you CAN control (with practice) is what has your attention. I strongly recommend meditation as a good way of emptying your mind of unwanted thought and focusing the attention on your hopes and ambitions. When your ability to focus is strong enough, unwanted thoughts still lurk around but they will no longer distress you.

What does my dream mean?

Jessica A says:
I had a dream I was in NY subway with this 1 girl frm my school that I don't really like because she use to be friends with my ex, but we were chatting joking running around then someone came and picked her up I woke up and she liked my picture on Instagram . I go back to sleep then I have a dream of me and my ex driving in the car to NY. This is the same ex that's friends with the one girl. I'm confused what this means ?! 

In a dream it feels like you have an experience which evokes a certain emotion. In fact what is really going on is the reverse - you are feeling something in real life and your brain constructs a story around it. Ask yourself how the dream is made you feel. Something in real life is generating that feeling, and if it's a bad feeling, like fear, confusion or anxiety, something needs dealing with. Otherwise the dream is just reflecting your feelings in general at this point in your life.