John says:
I've been seeing my girlfriend for several months and she lived with me for a while. The smell
from her vagina has never been the best, as a result our sex life has
been rocky, I didn't have sex with her unless she was right out of a
shower. I never explained why to her, until after we broke up (for other
reasons) But we recently decided to get back together. She doesnt live
with me now.
I cant predict when shes showered so our sex-life is non existent.
She got so frustrated over it that she asked me if I was gay, and it certainly seemed like I wasn't interested. I finally explained why
yesterday. I was nice about it, and we talked about it. She told me she
didn't have insurance to see a gynecologist So I said I'd help her out
with it. I was supposed to go see her last night, but she stopped
talking to me and hasn't replied to my text or calls. Shes been on Facebook talking and replying to other people's comments. I'm not sure whats
going through her mind right now.Should I just leave her alone and give
her time? Is she going to break up with me over this?
You have done absolutely the right thing - you have been open and honest
about how you feel. If vaginal odour is a problem for you then she
needed to know. Unfortunately she's not obliged to take it well!
She is probably angry, hurt and upset - ladies especially find it really
hard to be criticized in this way. But if she wants to be with you, she
will need to get over it and address it or dump you. If she dumps you
then fine - you know where you are and she was never the right girl for
you.
She might however decide to "punish" you by keeping you hanging. By all
means give her some space, but not infinite space. You will alone have
to decide how long you are prepared to wait.
For long-term relationships to work, both partners have to be
compatible. Being mostly compatible or fairly compatible won't cut it.
She needs to be as open in her feelings as you have been. If she can't
or won't, the relationship has run its course and it's time to move on.
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Wednesday, 21 May 2014
I've got a teen uncle!
Anonymous says:
I'm a 13 y/o girl, with a younger 11 y/o brother and we have an uncle whose 18 y/o. Little back story I got from mom, our grandma was 18 and granddad was 21, they were boyfriend/girlfriend, at the same time, became young parents to my dad and his twin (our other uncle)
Dad and uncle, grew up mostly with my great grandparents, so grandma could attend college, while granddad was away in the army. Our dad and uncle grew up to become army men themselves, when they were 21 y/o in the army, our uncle died, it left dad in a terrible state, due to the loss of his twin. Then at 23 y/o, dad became a big brother to our 2nd uncle, to ease the pain of the lost uncle, so, dad could have a brother again. This is the uncle, who is just 5 years older to me, 7 years older to my brother.
From my grade 1, till my grade 7, he used to be with us in the same school, now he is in college. We love him obviously and look at him as an 'older brother figure', he does have a protective nature towards me. But sometimes I feel weird, having to tell people that he is my uncle, I can't lie on it and have to tell that he is my uncle...people have mistaken him as my brother/cousin, at some point people thought he was my boyfriend O_o
Our uncle was given a space by dad, to live at our home and attend college at the same time. Dad kinda treats him like a 'son' rather than a brother and dad is 41, still in the army. I feel awkward at times, is it normal for such family age gaps ?
You'd be surprised how common this is - there's plenty of teen uncles and aunts everywhere. It's all very normal, natural and often nice. Never be ashamed of those who care about you. Be proud and grateful.
I'm a 13 y/o girl, with a younger 11 y/o brother and we have an uncle whose 18 y/o. Little back story I got from mom, our grandma was 18 and granddad was 21, they were boyfriend/girlfriend, at the same time, became young parents to my dad and his twin (our other uncle)
Dad and uncle, grew up mostly with my great grandparents, so grandma could attend college, while granddad was away in the army. Our dad and uncle grew up to become army men themselves, when they were 21 y/o in the army, our uncle died, it left dad in a terrible state, due to the loss of his twin. Then at 23 y/o, dad became a big brother to our 2nd uncle, to ease the pain of the lost uncle, so, dad could have a brother again. This is the uncle, who is just 5 years older to me, 7 years older to my brother.
From my grade 1, till my grade 7, he used to be with us in the same school, now he is in college. We love him obviously and look at him as an 'older brother figure', he does have a protective nature towards me. But sometimes I feel weird, having to tell people that he is my uncle, I can't lie on it and have to tell that he is my uncle...people have mistaken him as my brother/cousin, at some point people thought he was my boyfriend O_o
Our uncle was given a space by dad, to live at our home and attend college at the same time. Dad kinda treats him like a 'son' rather than a brother and dad is 41, still in the army. I feel awkward at times, is it normal for such family age gaps ?
You'd be surprised how common this is - there's plenty of teen uncles and aunts everywhere. It's all very normal, natural and often nice. Never be ashamed of those who care about you. Be proud and grateful.
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