Thursday, 23 January 2014

She wants to wait

CoolGuy says:
Ok. I told her i like her and she said thank you in a smiling face. But she told me she cant date until 16. And I told her I didnt mean to ask her out today but show what i really think about u. And I asked her if she can be my girlfriend in future and she said maybe. Any opinion!??

This all depends how special you think she is. If you think she is so lovely as to be worth the wait, then big respect to you, but you must accept the risk that at 16 she may not go with you! So is she that special? Go with your gut, it never lies. 

Boyfriend is not happy I'm pregnant

Anonymous says:

Ok so here's the deal: ever since i found out i was pregnant my boyfriend has been mean to me (hes excited and wants the baby) nd no this isnt just my horomones! Last night the first time in 3 years he hung up (we were in a fight) with out saying i love u nd before he would NEVER do tht. He dont feel the need to be with me all the time. Nd he dont always ask me what im doing. Nd no this isnt all in my head! Its like he thinks im stuck wih him because im pregnant so he can treat me how he wants. So wht im going to do is tell him im getting an abortion (im really not) and see if he treats me any different. If he does then screw him im done and going to focus on my baby!
Nd its not just those things like he cqlled me a ***** fr the first time EVER! Hes just been really different literally since the day he found out about the baby this was three weeks ago. Nd he wanted a baby so no hes not scared he already has a 9yo nd hes a really good dad. He usualy treats me like a princes.
 
The one thing you must absolutely NOT do is tell such a terrible lie. That will certainly not help matters. You are keeping the baby and that's that.
He is certainly having a hard time accepting you are pregnant. You need to nicely and calmly give him a choice. If he wants to stand by you, that's great but he has to be nice. If he can't handle it, tell him he doesn't have to, and you'll save up all your lovin' for your baby.
Having a baby is hard enough without a partner being mean and resentful, so he needs to shape up or ship out.
 

How can accept the fact that girls fart and poop too?

Chase Elliott says:
You might think this is some joke or me being a troll but the truth is there are LOTS of guys like me who can't handle knowing this. Put it this way, if I fell in love with the perfect girl and went out and bought a ring, got her in the perfect time and place to propose...but heard her fart before doing it; I would have to delay proposing like a week or two, until it gets out of my mind... 

Good thing you're not with my wife - you'd have a nervous breakdown! The short answer is GET OVER IT. If you can't you are not going to be very successful in relationships. If it's that serious a problem for you, a good NLP-trained therapist will help you. Cognitive-Behavioural Therapy is also a good option, or hypnotherapy. Some therapists will give you a big discount or traet you for free in return for a commendation. 

The right dating headline

Okay I am on plenty of fish I need Help wit the Headline I was going to use nice personality And beautiful souls. I do have a cool personality I'm very down to earth I Like To have a good time. so I don't know what else . 

Seems to me you have a good one already - plenty of demand for "Cool Personality/Down To Earth"

Looking for romantic inspiration

Purplecherry says:
This is what i want to tell him:
"Just imagine i'm in front of you, with my knees down and a rose in my hand and saying 'I love you sweetheart. Will you be my better half? :* "

Can anyone help me to do this in an even more romantic way? 


My life has been so much better since you've been in it. All I can think about is being with you. Please can I be with you more? It would make my life perfect if I could tell everyone you were my [boyfriend/fiancee/husband]. Can we make that happen? 

Does he like me or not?

Briana says:
This dude I know very coo conversation love it we been talking for like 3/4 months. hes also 6 yesrs older, then me.. hes a little shy to me but he says hes not ..we used to talk everyday but not now idk its like every other day sometimes a week he wont call.so I just stop callin and texting all together ill wait untill he would hit me up.. so now he does weird stuff like text me and say good morning.. ill say morning then he won't respond like WATT I dont get it. 

This guy is playing it so cool that you are freezing to death. It's time for you to lose patience. Force a decision (you wanna go with me or not?) or if you prefer the gentleman to take the lead, move on to someone a little more proactive. 

What does her text mean?

Barney says:
Me and a girl have been texting a little bit, not a lot because I'm really busy. I like her, think she likes me but is 1 of those girls that really starts low as far as investments concerned. Well I approached her the first time by saying she's totally hot.
We were talking about our dogs and she said her dog walks around with its tongue out and I said "your dog must get loads of attention from male dogs ;) you think dogs take after their owners :P" .. To which she replied with "Haha shhh".

I'm only going to be myself in my reply. But what does she mean by that text? 


You are overthinking this, it's just an exchange of humour. There will be less scope for confusion when you start properly dating